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What's In The Way Of Your Self-Respect
(Confronting your shadow, and what's really in the way of your self-respect.)
You may already have a sense of the man you want to be. The problem usually isn’t that you need more discipline, more information, or another strategy. It’s that there’s a part of you—often one you’ve spent years avoiding, controlling, or outrunning—that still has a hand on the wheel.
Wednesday, OCTOBER 28 • 6:00–7:00pm ET  • Live on Zoom
Reserve Your SpotYou may already have a sense of the man you want to be.
But knowing who you want to become and actually living as that man are two very different things.
The gap usually isn’t a lack of information. And it isn’t always a lack of discipline. More often, there are parts of you that you’ve learned to avoid, suppress, control, or outrun—and whether you realize it or not, those parts still have a hand on the wheel.
This is the territory of the shadow.
The fears you don’t want to admit. The anger you’ve pushed down. The needs you judge yourself for having. The places where you question your own worth. The patterns you know are costing you something, but keep repeating anyway.
Because self-respect isn’t simply how you feel about yourself.
It’s revealed in what you tolerate. What you pursue. What you avoid. The promises you keep to yourself. The boundaries you hold. The relationships you choose. And what you do when nobody else is there to hold you accountable.
On this live call, we’re going to take an honest look at where you are now, the patterns that may be keeping you there, and what needs to be confronted if you want to build something different moving forward.
Not so you can endlessly analyze yourself.
So you can see clearly what’s been running you—and begin choosing what runs your life from here.
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To Your Success,
Connor
This is for you if...
- âś“Â You know who you want to be, but you keep acting in ways that don't match it
- âś“Â You keep breaking promises to yourself and wonder why willpower never sticks
- âś“Â You notice the same reactions (anger, shutting down, people-pleasing) showing up when you least want them
- âś“Â You've built a life that looks successful, but you don't fully respect the man living it
What We'll Actually Get Into
Your shadow, defined
What the shadow actually is, and why the parts of you that you reject end up running the show.
→ Without the jargon.
Who's in the way
How to spot the part of you that sabotages your self-respect, and what it's trying to protect.
→ Name it to tame it.
Earning your own respect
The first steps toward becoming a man you trust and respect.
→ Starting this week.
What this actually is
This is Connor and his team, live, having an honest conversation about something almost every man deals with and almost nobody names correctly. Bring your real questions—we'll get to as many as we can.
About Connor
Connor Beaton is the founder of Man Talks and the author of Men's Work: End Self-Sabotage. He's spent over a decade in rooms with men—one-on-one, in small groups, on stages—helping them see the patterns that keep them stuck long after the goal-setting and the five-step plans stop working. This call is that same conversation. Just live, and free.
